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Old 11-03-2006, 05:25 AM
nancy
Age: 30
Munnerlyn, GA
Contributor: Senior
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what makes a man not want anything to do with you,after 3 1/2 yrs? i don't get it. if u love someone your suppose to show affection, no matter how long you've been together. am i ugly,fat,anattractive? what?
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Old 11-03-2006, 05:48 AM
Mary
Age: 52
Goose Creek, SC
Contributor: Chief Resident
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You're not any of those things.* And if he's using those as an excuse, it's not you, it's him.* Some people just don't know how to show affection.* And sometimes people get in a rut and just let affection cool off.
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I think you should sit down with him and have a talk.* And if things don't look better, I'd consider making some changes.* You can't put your life on hold forever for someone that doesn't know what he wants.

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Old 11-03-2006, 06:38 AM
nancy
Age: 30
Munnerlyn, GA
Contributor: Senior
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here is the breakdown- i've been through welfare with him & his kids. i took the kids in when their mom lost them do to living with a childmolester. i've been there for him so many times. he's been there for my 3 surgeries & my aunts death @ the 1st of this yr. now, that i need him the most, he pushes me away. is he scared? i've tried talking i've even wrote him letters telling him how i feel. what else is there left to do? does this mean he's cheating? he sleeps in his chair more than the bed. we've made love once in 2 months.
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Old 11-03-2006, 08:41 AM
Rosa
Age: 40
El Centro, CA
Contributor: Junior
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i've Been There.* I Know What You Are Going Thru.* Basicly All I Did Was Give Him Time.* I Left Him Alone And Not Spoke To Him Only When He Wanted To Talk.* I Thought He Was Moving Out.* He Even Threaten To Do That.* I Said Fine Leave.* He Still Here And We Are Talking And Everything Is Like Nothing Happened.* I Think It Was Just Like A Mid-life Crisis He Was Turning 30 And It Was Really Getting To Him.*
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Old 11-03-2006, 09:03 AM
Paula
Age: 29
San Buenaventura, CA
Contributor: Junior
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is it possible that drugs might be involved? dumb question, but really, that makes people alianate themselves from their loved ones...
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Old 11-03-2006, 09:34 AM
marilyn
Age: 27
Londonderry, NH
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Well like the girls said..it could be so many things....cheating, drugs, or he just need plain old space.* I would wait a few days and don't push the issue..when he is ready, he'll be there.* But if this goes on for weeks then I would honestly sit down with him and tell him* what you feel.* If he doesn't want to hear it, then you know what to do..if he is willing to talk and work things out, then that is even better
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