Re: Hi I'm New...I really need support
It's a matter of your mind-set. I was depressed, too, after 3 years of trying, starting and stopping, and gradually putting on more and more weight. I hated shopping, I felt old, I felt fat and depressed. I finally decided I couldn't do it on my own, and went to see a weight loss doctor. I found out that my metabolism wasn't low...that's what I was blaming my weight gain on. She got me on a program and I decided that it was now or never. Also, my daughter and her family asksed me to go on my first cruise with them in November. That gave me something to focus on....and I've been doing really good. I've lost 23 pounds in a little over two months, and have lost 2 sizes in my clothing. The more I lose, and the more inches that go, the better and better I've been feeling. I know how to do this...I had just lost my focus and was blaming everything and everybody for my weight. In reality, I've been able to discount each and every one of my excuses. I agree with Joy, start drinking more water and start walking. Challenge yourself to do a little more each day. Something my weight doctor pointed out was that my body needed a certain amount of calories...she figured out what my body needed just to maintain my current weight...and I'm taking in lots less calories...the result of eating less calories than your body burns is weight loss. The main thing that I focus on is logging each and everything that I eat. I was surprised when I "estimated" that I was way over the calories that I needed. Buddy Slim has a terrific food journal and you can also track your exercise. There are great forums. I belong to one where we challenge each other and build up points for challenges that we meet each week, and we all weigh in at the end of the week to see our total weight loss. There are some really supportive people on this site....they'll (we'll) help you.
Debbie
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