My ex isn't Tony... his STUPID name is STUPID Irfan. And he's being STUPID STUPID STUPID lately... I went to a wedding today ALONE because STUPID Irfan promised to go with me and bailed on me. GRRRRRR. And I KNOW he's with his FEMALE friend and her FEMALE friend, who happens to like him, AND IT'S KILLING ME INSIDE.......

I feel like my heart was ripped out everytime I remember him and all I want to do is cry and eat and NEITHER are healthy when done too much

Originally Posted by 11482

debbie, who the heck is Tony? You sound so happy he's gone, but for the life of me I don't remember who he is. Is he Amanda's ex?

No, he's not Amanda's ex (hi Amanda!). He was this guy that was trolling the Buddy Slim site and being really offensive and unsupportive on people's blogs. A bunch of people reported him and looks like they took care of it - so we are very excited!

amanda sorry to hear about the wedding. any fun at all?

Amanda, I don't know who's being stupid...seems to me he's getting what he wants, and being disrespectful to you. That makes me think he's not worth your time. You need to take this time for you , focus on your health, and self esteem. Start giving some thought to starting that journal. Keep in touch with the support you have here at bs and if you feel that crying jag coming on......remember who is making you feel so bad. (besides, I think you're not crying because you want him back, you're crying for what you dreamed of having with him) MAKE NEW DREAMS. Sorry to talk to you like a mama, but that's what I am and if you were my daughter I would just want to shake you and hug you at the same time. Go to church, stop feeling sorry for what you don't have and get to work on "making Amanda happy"! (not with food..lol)

TOTALLY AGREE WITH SANDY. **Hugs**

went on a 2 mile walk wiht maggie last night! she was sooo happy and it was GREAT!!!

I also have to agree with Sandy.
I know it feels like you will always feel this way but you won't, trust me. I know it hurts and theres really nothing anyone can say to make it better. Pretty much only time will do that but there are things you can do during that time to try and make yourself feel better. Try not to think about what he's doing, that will just make you crazy!
Hang tough girl!

~Mo

I took Whisper out for a walk today. So on our walk this evil Pom comes racing out of his house and proceeds to try and bite her on her legs. Whisper just looked at her like what the hell are you doing?????? Luckily the owner ran out and scooped up the little demon spawn before Whisper decided she'd had enough LMAO

~Mo

Oh My God! I am LMAO too! Where did you get this great picture? I'm printing it out for my daughter. We didn't walk today, it was too icy and snowed all morning. Pretty at church tho...the choir sits facing these huge picture windows facing a pretty garden and the snow was falling in big, soft flakes.........ahhh. Nice a cozy at home on nights like this. Hey! I made a huge discovery today, when I want to snack I log on to bs instead and read a few blogs, send a message or two and the urge passes. See you all later, when I get hungry...lol

Mo that is so funny! LOve it!

Sandy I have the same thing as you. BS is a great substitute for snacking!

Thanks you guys. Its pretty funny huh??? Ive logged on here instead of snacking too. Its a great place to be!

~Mo

Yes! But I have had to watch out for starting to eat a the computer. Now, I only have tea or water when I'm here.