Well if that is the situation that really happens when he takes them...then don't let them go and if you do you can have an escorted visit.* If the kids really want to go then I wouldn't let your daughter go by herself, have her brothers go to protect her.* But if it were me I woudn't let anyone go.

ok i need motivation today. see, i've got a problem & it sucked the energy right out of me last night. my man forgot to tell me, he's getting his 3 youngest ones again this wkend. well, it upset me, cause last wkend they were cussing & they kept hitting my kids for no reason. this happens evertime they come over. they never listen to me. i told him it's fine to get his daughter cause she's his, the boys aren't. he just raised them. what should i do?* i love all his kids {5}. but it's like i told him, i can't handle it anymore. now he won't talk to me. i never ment to cause trouble. but, he's always being so negetive bout mine & things i do. help!!!!!!!!!!