RE: TLC Program Last night????..
[t]Yes, Initially I blamed the family too but then they started talking about how he would just order from somewhere or have someone else cook for him.. But then I feel like SO what! Let him just order out all the time then! At least he will know his family does not support his ways and will have no part of it. I guess the only true way to know is to meet them because I really cant tell if they are just so passive and do whatever he wants so they wont have to hear him bitch or if they are just seriously tired people.. tired of cooking, of being blamed, of just everything ya know? Its hard to believe that the people who love you the most would keep feeding you like that though... I wonder if they added some veggies or baked things instead of fried if he would notice or even care? You would think that his family would make some effort to help him but who knows! Maybe they have and their attempts have failed..
[/t]Yeah. I know, they said he would order out...But I guess I dont understand...Take the phone away...Feed him fruits, veggies and low cal items...Whats he gonna do? He can barely walk...It really really made me mad, honestly...I cant imagine watching my loved one eat 8 steaks a night and NOT say something...
I love food. GOD KNOWS...But the euphoria he described, was FRIGHTENING...Because its soooo temporary, and then when you are done eating, you are once again, a 700 pound man, stuck in your bed?!?
Girl...I jsut dont get it...And I have weight issues. Trust me...But I dont know how one gets THAT big...Or more importantly, how your body even functions at all at that weight...His poor heart. Lungs. Liver...UGH...
I felt bad for them at first, but then my anger got a hold of me, because it didnt seem like ANY of them were even trying to change their addictions...VERY VERY sad...
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