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Old 10-04-2008, 02:06 PM
Rae
Rae
Age: 40
CC, TX
Contributor: Sophomore
Arrow Self-Love/Intuitive Eating Challenge

Hey Buddies,

I have noticed that several of you on Buddy Slim have claimed self-love, body acceptance, and/or intuitive eating as part of your journey towards health. This is my primary interest as well. I enjoy visiting your blogs and getting to know you through private messages, but I thought it might be even more powerful to create a circle of support in which we could explore what that meant as a community. Power in numbers, right?

Drop a line if you are interested in exploring rigorous self-love. And let's brainstorm about a name!

Thanks,
Rae
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Old 10-04-2008, 02:38 PM
Lara
Age: 35
United States
Contributor: Chief Resident
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I am in I can be on two teams, huh?

hmmm....a name I will have to think....something that is beautiful inside and out - something natural and pure....
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Old 10-04-2008, 05:11 PM
Amy
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Age: 39
Perry, FL
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Count me in! Maybe this is just what I need.
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Old 10-04-2008, 05:29 PM
kylie
Age: 29
Japan
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sounds good- i'm in.
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Old 10-04-2008, 06:05 PM
Rae
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Age: 40
CC, TX
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Yay! Where two or more gather....we have a circle of support! Welcome!


Yah, Lara.
I don't see why you couldn't be on this team and another. I think they are possibly two different things.

Rae
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Old 10-04-2008, 06:47 PM
allison
Age: 30
Chicago, IL
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I've heard a little about intuitive eating and think it sounds like a great concept. I'd be interested in learning more about it. And I could definitely stand to love myself a little more!
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Old 10-05-2008, 07:25 AM
Juliette
Age: 51
United Kingdom
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I'm not sure I understand about intuitive eating. I'm not on a diet, but eating healthier foods, very little processed food and only when there is no alternative. I both like and love myself, and I am happy with the person I am.

Although I accept my body, I feel somewhat guilty that I have done my body and health a disservice by not taking better care of it, including exercise and diet. I feel I should have respected by body more, and I working on that. I definitely still pamper my body with nice lotions, etc.

I guess my eating style is closer to the French style (I'm French on my mother'sside). I take care in selecting ingredients, cooking the meal, and take time and enjoyment when eating. We drink wine with evening meals, and I don't deny myself things I really want, but I have it in moderation.
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Old 10-05-2008, 11:44 AM
Rae
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Age: 40
CC, TX
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Hey Juliette,

I don't have all the facts about Intuitive Eating myself. But I want to know more about it. I understand that it is not a diet and I think it is a bit more like the French way (as I understand that).

At any rate, I like the way you eat. It is very much in line with my choices. Perhaps you can visit this circle occasionally to offer you wisdom and share in some of ours.

Thanks,
Rae
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Old 10-05-2008, 12:12 PM
Isabelle LosingIt
Age: 32
San Diego, CA
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Anything to help learn to respect myself... body and mind, I'll do. Count me in. Right now I run a forum in the fitness challenge called "Commit to Get Fit" and have learned how wonderful it is to have a group effort in this journey. So forming this group will be great as well I'm sure. One huge goal for me this year is to learn to love my body as it is.... so hopefully I can achieve this here. I too don't know much about intuitive eating but I'll do some reading up on that.
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Old 10-05-2008, 12:17 PM
Isabelle LosingIt
Age: 32
San Diego, CA
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What is Intuitive Eating?
Intuitive eating is an approach that teaches you how to create a healthy relationship with your food, mind, and body--where you ultimately become the expert of your own body. You learn how to distinguish between physical and emotional feelings, and gain a sense of body wisdom. It's also a process of making peace with food---so that you no longer have constant "food worry" thoughts. It's knowing that your health and your worth as a person does not change because you ate a so-called "bad" or "fattening" food.


On the surface this may sound simplistic, but it is rather complex. For example one of the basic principles of Intuitive Eating is the ability to respond to inner body cues, “Eat when you're hungry and stop when you're full”, which may sound like a no-brainer. But when you have history of chronic dieting or rigid “healthy” rules about eating it's quite difficult because a number of things need to be in place, including the ability to trust yourself! Here is a summary of the 10 principles of Intuitive Eating, from our book, Intuitive Eating, 2nd ed, 2003.

Intuitive Eating Principles

1. Reject the Diet Mentality Throw out the diet books and magazine articles that offer you false hope of losing weight quickly, easily, and permanently. Get angry at the lies that have led you to feel as if you were a failure every time a new diet stopped working and you gained back all of the weight. If you allow even one small hope to linger that a new and better diet might be lurking around the corner, it will prevent you from being free to rediscover Intuitive Eating.
2. Honor Your Hunger Keep your body biologically fed with adequate energy and carbohydrates. Otherwise you can trigger a primal drive to overeat. Once you reach the moment of excessive hunger, all intentions of moderate, conscious eating are fleeting and irrelevant. Learning to honor this first biological signal sets the stage for re-building trust with yourself and food.

3. Make Peace with Food Call a truce, stop the food fight! Give yourself unconditional permission to eat. If you tell yourself that you can't or shouldn't have a particular food, it can lead to intense feelings of deprivation that build into uncontrollable cravings and, often, bingeing When you finally “give-in” to your forbidden food, eating will be experienced with such intensity, it usually results in Last Supper overeating, and overwhelming guilt.
4. Challenge the Food Police .Scream a loud "NO" to thoughts in your head that declare you're "good" for eating under 1000 calories or "bad" because you ate a piece of chocolate cake. The Food Police monitor the unreasonable rules that dieting has created . The police station is housed deep in your psyche, and its loud speaker shouts negative barbs, hopeless phrases, and guilt-provoking indictments. Chasing the Food Police away is a critical step in returning to Intuitive Eating.
5. Respect Your Fullness Listen for the body signals that tell you that you are no longer hungry. Observe the signs that show that you're comfortably full. Pause in the middle of a meal or food and ask yourself how the food tastes, and what is your current fullness level?
6. Discover the Satisfaction Factor The Japanese have the wisdom to promote pleasure as one of their goals of healthy living In our fury to be thin and healthy, we often overlook one of the most basic gifts of existence--the pleasure and satisfaction that can be found in the eating experience. When you eat what you really want, in an environment that is inviting and conducive, the pleasure you derive will be a powerful force in helping you feel satisfied and content. By providing this experience for yourself, you will find that it takes much less food to decide you've had "enough".
7. Honor Your Feelings Without Using Food Find ways to comfort , nurture, distract, and resolve your issues without using food. Anxiety, loneliness, boredom, anger are emotions we all experience throughout life. Each has its own trigger, and each has its own appeasement. Food won't fix any of these feelings. It may comfort for the short term, distract from the pain, or even numb you into a food hangover. But food won't solve the problem. If anything, eating for an emotional hunger will only make you feel worse in the long run. You'll ultimately have to deal with the source of the emotion, as well as the discomfort of overeating.
8. Respect Your Body Accept your genetic blueprint. Just as a person with a shoe size of eight would not expect to realistically squeeze into a size six, it is equally as futile (and uncomfortable) to have the same expectation with body size. But mostly, respect your body, so you can feel better about who you are. It's hard to reject the diet mentality if you are unrealistic and overly critical about your body shape.
9. Exercise--Feel the Difference Forget militant exercise. Just get active and feel the difference. Shift your focus to how it feels to move your body, rather than the calorie burning effect of exercise. If you focus on how you feel from working out, such as energized, it can make the difference between rolling out of bed for a brisk morning walk or hitting the snooze alarm. If when you wake up, your only goal is to lose weight, it's usually not a motivating factor in that moment of time.
10 Honor Your Health--Gentle Nutrition Make food choices that honor your health and tastebuds while making you feel well. Remember that you don't have to eat a perfect diet to be healthy. You will not suddenly get a nutrient deficiency or gain weight from one snack, one meal, or one day of eating. It's what you eat consistently over time that matters, progress not perfection is what counts.




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