Re: Heartbreakers #15 "Your past does not equal, nor does it dictate, your future. "
okay i have a question....do you all agree that we are putting way to much emphasis on what the scale says? i have been feeling this way for awhile...and i know some of you like the weigh in aspect of the weightloss challenge....i was thinking we need to put more emphasis on replacing our old fatty habits with new slimmer healthier habits....and focusing on inches and the long term as well as some short time goals such as Annies 4th of July challenge...but, maybe each week is just too much emotionally on some of us....and i believe we lose more people because they are afraid to weigh in because they feel they "are letting the team down" when actually they are probably more disappointed for "letting themselves down" so they fall off the face of our weightloss challenge and off of buddy slim altogether ? i have been reading a few books today....You on a diet and Weigh down and it talks about how all of the fad diets dont work and are only short term diets...that are impossible to follow for very long. such as the atkins, the zone, i could go on....i think that we have to be healthy emotionally(mentally), physically, and spiritually to reach our ideal weight...if we focus just on physical then it could cause alot of problems emotionally...like we saw in Julie today...and think about the others who may not see the scale move for weeks...they will only give up...and is our goal here really just to win the weigh ins each week? whats more important? i would say that each and everyone of us reach our healthy balance in all those areas...but this is not only my team...i am asking everyones opinion on this.....and there wont be any big changes like this made until i have heard everyones opinions and suggestions. we will never be able to make everyone happy but....i believe this is just one more way to bring our team closer together.....what do you think?
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