Looking for a buddy

I am just starting out my weight loss journey. i am a 25 year old mother of two plus husband.... I am looking for someone to help me and for me to help them .. I am not sure how much weight i want to lose i just want to feel happier in this body... to be in the right range for my height technically i need to lose 80 to a 100 pounds but i will be happy right now with 20.. i have a really hard time get motivated to get up and go. if you want add me as a friend or leave me a message looking for someone in the same kind of situation so they know how it is