Morning girls,
I should be working, but figured I'd post now while there aren't 900 responses to get through. Chatty little devils y'all are.
Congrats to the Eunice girls on the losses...something in the water out there this week? Seriously, keep up the good work.
Ds' darned spelling bee is this morning. I let him do an all afternoon study session with a friend yesterday afternoon, so instead of getting ANYTHING done, I was there helping. After that, I have to work, work, work, and then workout. I don't think I'll be getting to the house today to do anything. Carpets are in town and will be installed on the 18th, which leaves us on schedule to move on the 19th -21st. We're going to tear out the bathroom vanity on one side today and see how bad it is. We're thinking because it's a 96 in vanity with double sinks, it's going to be VERY expensive to replace, so we'll have to figure something out. I'm guessing we'll have to replace that and the floor right away, and then the shower can wait, since it's just old and crappy, but not moldy. Blech!
Jen-I hope the browser worked out for you. And I hope Scout is home.
As for Kevin and the weight loss... I wish I had some wise words. I think men, in a lot of ways, just don't get it. And since he's been burned by it in the past, he's got a mental block on. What he needs to understand, like all men, is that when we do things that make us feel better, we are better wives/mothers. And as far as the family time goes, screw that...it's an excuse, not a reason. If the shoe were on the other foot, you would be doing everything you could to help him...that's what partnership is about. If it's important to you, then that's all that should matter to him. He needs to get past his personal shit and see the path to helping the woman he loves be happier with herself. I hate that "I think you look fine" shit. It's not about what you think...
The sad thing is, that you've already had a saboteur in your life, and he's gone now...maybe there's a way to make him understand that relationships are more apt to fall apart when someone is UNHAPPY with themselves, not when they're happy with themselves. If he continues to not support something that is so important to you, it's not going to become less important to you, but he is going to become more of a "problem" and less of a husband....not good. Wish there was a manual you could give him to read in the john..men are good with manuals, lol
Terry-sorry about the washer and the $$.
Gotta run....30 mins to work b4 I wake up the kid.
Peas,
Sue