Oye, what a day I had yesterday.
Woke up and got ready to get out of the house to find that the car battery was dead. Called a friend and arranged for them to pick ds up and take him to school...and then dh calls and says he and a co worker are coming to jump the car and then I can take ds to school. So they do, and I take him to school, careful not to shut the car off. So, he tells me to drive around for awhile so the battery will charge. While I'm driving around, my dearest friend from NY calls me (at 9am, which is not normal) and she tells me that another friend woke up this morning and found her dh dead in the bed. Now this is someone who I have stepped away from because of issues with drugs and arrests-I just didn't want it near my family. I haven't talked to her in many years. She lost her dad less than a year ago, and at that point I initiated a very careful email contact with her. I went back and forth about calling her, but I decided that since I was driving around charging the battery, I might as well. So while I'm talking to her, she is demonstrably out of it...not sure if she had been popping pills or was just incredibly tired and overwrought (as she should be considering, but it's just hard to tell with her). As I'm talking to her, I realize that I've driven into a school zone, 15 mph, and hit the brakes...but not before Mr Policeman puts his lights on and comes after me.
If that is not the universe sending me a message that I should not let her back into my world regardless of her situation, I don't know what is. I got pulled over WHILE talking to her. Geez.
So, I get the ticket. My fault after all, I should have been paying more attention. I come home, turn off the car, try to start it again and it's dead. The battery didn't take the charge. So I had to call a friend to take me to get a new battery. Now I have to go to "traffic school" to reduce the fine.
The irony is, as my friend Leslie says, that I am the safest driver she knows
Calgon, take me away!
Later on in the evening, I get a call back from same dearest friend in NY who told me about the death. She tells me that she's had a bad mammo and there is a 6cm lump behind her nipple on her breast. Her surgeon has been incredibly conservative, and has been trying to get "other views" of this lump because he doesn't want to have to "try and biopsy it". She is freaking out because the lump is in the exact same place where her sister's cancer was. She's headed for a second opinion to the doctor of our other friend who is going through bc treatment...both her primary care doc and this new doc's nurse are appalled at the lack of action on the part of her doctor. She will be getting a biopsy very quickly. I'm worried about her. I don't have a good feeling about this.
Still haven't had a response on the offer on the house. Not feeling positive about that anymore. They have until 5pm tomorrow and then the offer expires.
Lizzy-glad you have POA. Sorry that it doesn't help you in this situation. I hope that she gives you full access to the results. Hope your voice clears up soon. You are really struggling with this one.
Terry-hope ds feels better. I swear my ds was home during the first week of school with a stomach virus. It just whips through schools so quickly.
Jen-I hope TOPS gets better. That doesn't sound like a program at all. Take care of the knees...sounds like a lot of damage there.
Alright, I have to work. Haven't gotten much done this week.
Peace out ladies,
Sue