Honestly when I hear someone with 10 lbs to lose talking about their "struggles" I just want to smack them. Petty of me but there you have it. I'm looking for other people, preferably guys, who need to lose a lot of weight. I've got to drop over 200 lbs. We're not talking a week of tai bo here. This is not the start of a "No Girls Allowed" Club. Nothing against ladies but let's face it in general we process information and identity differently. I don't know how I'm going to get myself out of this mess but I do know I'm tired of failing and damned if I'll do the same thing over again! Didn't work last time, won't work this time, TRY SOMETHING NEW! I'd like to hear from others in the same or similar boats. John

No offense taken John. I applaud your honesty and your awareness that men and women are different. Modern society bombards us with messages that we are equal, when physiologically and psycologically we are not (everyone knows women are the superior ones---hahahaha---I'm ONLY kidding)!! Good luck on your weight-loss journey!!