I have a question, and couldn't figure out where to place it, but figured this would at least be okay... if you don't mind me asking...

how is everyone's sex life?
I've talked to alot of guys that said fat chicks were almost ALWAYS a better lay then skinny chicks. Its the whole "had to develop a personality cause they didn't have looks" sort of deal. Not to toot my own horn, but I've been complemented quite often...(toot!) I guess I'm just wondering whether being large and in charge has hurt anyone's sex life.
So?...

LOL - I love that question. You crack me up. I'll start by stating that if your weight is such that it's a medical condition affecting your sex life then that's a different story altogether and I'm qualified to address anything like that. Otherwise, it's definitely not a problem. I think it's a matter of confidence and attitude. You've got plenty of both so I don't doubt you. Seriously though, if you confident and without a lot of hang-ups, the sex is great and should only get better. Doesn't matter if you're a size 6 or 16.

I do agree, I think it has to do with confidence. No matter your weight if you exude confidence you are sexy, confidence is uber appealing. I personally feel sexier when slimmer so my libido is better - but to many that may not matter not to mention that guys have varying tastes as well...

Thats one reason why I wanna lose weight-cause I don't have confidence. The bf and I was talking about something like this because our sex life has lost frequency since I've gained weight. He's even mentioned that my fat calves can momentairly turn him off in bed. I do agree that I enjoy it way more if I am confident, its much more relaxing/fun if I'm not thinking about the jiggling and body imperfections. He also said that I look way better/hotter/sexy if I just put my shoulders back and ooze fake confidence from my body positions (in and out of bed).

** Good question.* The only thing affecting my sex life is my weight and I am only 19.* My boyfriend does not complain but I have not been so intrested in having sex due to my weight because I feel that I am fat and ugly and I hate my body.* My boyfriend weighs more then I do and I am fine with that, I love his body so its not him its me. So I guess to answer your question it depends on how you feel about yourself and how much the man respects you as a person and not what you look like because some guys can be very mean when it comes to weight.* Hope I helped.
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