Hi Stacey! I think a lot of us moms, including me, feel this way. It is just wrong! When i do it, i try to remind myself that if i don't take care of me, then i can't take care of them. Then that gives me "permission" to do for myself. Even though, we are worth enough by ourselves to do it anyway, but our minds are not geared that way.

Jamie: you've got the right idea with scheduling the chores and time for yourself. We have just got to speak up and do it. We deserve it.