Hey Nik-you do what you have to do for you and your babies girlfriend. He'll either fall in place or he won't. You have no control over what he chooses to do, only what you choose to do. Sounds like you've hit that place.
Glad you're back to WW. Really helps to have friends to do it with. I think being off the island and coming out of isolation is going to be good for you in more ways than you know.

Sue