I'm another newbie I'm not really sure how everything works here - just surfing around. I REALLY REALLY need some support. I'm very discouraged/frustrated. After the birth of my first daughter (who is 8 now) I gained a lot of weight and ended up about 89 lbs overweight. Over the course of YEARS I lost it (I mostly used the slimfast plan which I loved). Then I got prengant again and since my son (now 16 months) has been born I'm now nearly 100 lbs overweight. With both of them I don't gain that much while pregnant - it's all afterward while breastfeeding and everything.

I've tried every diet under the sun and have come to believe it's not about finding the right diet - it's about just taking better care of myself. Time to sleep, eat well and exercise.

I don't mind working out - in fact I love it and do it regularly. However, I am a serious binge eater and have some pretty bad eating habits even though I know better!