i feel the same way, i did not love myself for a long time. i just seemed to let myself go and give to everyone else. my hubby would always say that if he loved m and loved the way i looked, then i should be happy too. he just doesn't get it!! it doesn't matter how much everyone else loves you, YOU have to love YOU!! what is it with guys?!?! lol! anyway, since i have have started taking care of myself, i am starting to see changes in my body. needless to say, i am starting to like myself again....