Im kinda at a loss too,maybe this could be the AFTER of losing weight.
1 .My spouse thinks more guys are checkin me out now that I lost
weight.
2. I have a new group of friends because my old friends coulndt handle me lookin so good they were jealous.
3.What do I do about all this extra skin dont wanna have surgery.

This is just a few suggestions if people really stay around after they lose weight. I had this one friend I had lost about 50 pounds , she never told me that I lost weight but she let me know that I gained it back