Oh Joy, I'm so sorry things are so stressfull for you. The only thing I can say is that it's not the wedding that will matter in the end....it's the MARRAIGE itself. But for them to be stressing you out so bad when you already have so much on your plate....shame on them. I hope things work out well for you. It's almost the big day and soon you will have your "happily ever after". Hang in there.